Do you dare to ask God to speak to you?

My wife and I have been on an interesting journey this past year. After leaving the church ministry last May where I had been serving as Worship Pastor and Musical Director for eight years, I found myself in an unfamiliar place: being without a church home, and beginning a journey to find a new church.

This was unprecedented for me, because I had always been on staff as Music Director at every church I attended - employed by the church I attended. After all, you kind of have to attend the church that is paying you to be there to lead their musical program!

We have not been in any hurry. There was some burnout, more than I realized, after having been in church work for over twenty years. In fact, now that I am teaching, this past Christmas season was eye-opening to me. Our family was together for the holiday, free of the pressures of church programs and services, and actually all at home on Christmas Eve together. Weekends have been restorative as well, without the weekly pressures of preparing and presenting multiple services full of music.

Nevertheless, the desire to worship with other Christ-followers, to be taught God's Word, and to be in community with other believers, has remained, and even grown over time.

Finding a church to call home is hard! As my wife and I have visited various churches, we have discovered that our list of things we desire in a church has come into sharper focus. Having come from a large church situation, you might be surprised at what we are looking for; then again, you might not be surprised at all.

1. Authentic, deep, caring, real-world relationships and community
2. Small scale programming and building facilities
3. A focus on reaching out to the community in real-life acts of service
4. A flexible approach to church that allows for the Spirit to intervene with what has been planned and prepared with His agenda and purposes
5. A dependency on God that is revealed by the leadership being humble and teachable
6. Worship that is emotionally moving, overwhelmingly about God and definitely not about the "performance"
7. Teaching that is Biblical yet consistently applied to life

It has taken us nearly an entire year to find a church that we believe fulfills these requirements. It is a church plant, barely a year old, that meets in a hotel ballroom each week. It is a young church demographically; we are among the old ones there. They don't have everything figured out, but their authentic desire to follow Jesus and share Him with their world shows in everything they do.

Last Sunday was not unusual, even though it was Easter Sunday. There were technical difficulties, and parking problems, and church did not start on time. But as I walked into the building, I asked God to speak to me through the worship and the message, and did He ever!

I found tears streaming down my face as I worshiped God. The words of the modern praise music ministered to me, revealing who God is to me, and causing my soul to respond with unhindered thanksgiving and praise. The message was genuine, and clearly the result of time spent with God and His Word. I was challenged to go deeper, to meditate on the truths shared, as I wrote down key points in my I-phone notes app.

As we left, I had an opportunity to thank the pastor for His message. His response was to thank me for being there, and to share that He could probably learn a lot from me and from my years of church experience. A humble leader.

On the walk to the car, I told my wife that God had impressed on me that morning that this was where we should attend church. Her response? I thought God was telling me the very same thing today! A wonderfully confirming moment, seeing God tell us both the same thing independently of each other.

I do firmly believe that God will speak to someone if they ask Him to do so. An open mind, an open heart, and open hands, all give Him the opportunity to lead us in the right direction as we seek to follow Him. It's a great place to be!